He should consider the worst-case scenario, meaning that his wife finds out and is now brokenhearted. Is it worth it? So when their partner is tired from work and wrangling kids all day and unwilling to try new things, even the most loyal hubbies get bored and may even go looking for nookie. Their sexual values are just not compatible.
Forgive and Forget? Whether your man is having sex online or in a hotel room, should you take him back? Solomon says. Maybe he feels ignored and neglected. Whatever the reason, there's a deficit in the relationship that reinforced an emotional disconnect. And instead of addressing the problem head on, thoughts drift to, "Rachel does this for me, and my wife does not.
Everyone experiences depressed feelings and anxiety to a certain degree. The issue is whether or not those thoughts come from the relationship. However, "it's important to note that cheating [tends to] exacerbate existing anxiety and depression. There's that old adage, where every man wants to sleep with as many women as possible—"spread his seed," so to speak—and every women wants to find one mate—"lock him down.
The theory is that, because women only have a chance of reproduction once a month, they tend to be much more discriminating in choosing a partner.
Whereas men can basically have a chance of reproduction every time they ejaculate. As Shirey mentioned, most people don't wake up with the malicious intent to betray or hurt their partner. Well, most. Whatever the reason, "they need to address it themselves. It comes down to a need for validation; if he can't perform with his significant other, is he less of a man?
With their help, I spoke with nearly self-identified cheaters and learned first-hand how much grey area exists when it comes to infidelity. My conversations with Ashley Madison members have produced two books, detailing the behaviors and rationales of both female and male cheaters, which, for the most part, go against what we typically believe to be true.
Where a lack of sexual satisfaction at home motivates women to seek out affairs , men crave the emotional connection and support their spouse neglects to provide. I address the latter in my latest endeavour, Chasing Masculinity: Men, Validation, and Infidelity , which reveals the surprising truth about male infidelity, and flips the script when it comes to what we think motivates men to cheat.
For this research, I spoke to 46 men ranging from 27 to 70 years of age, all either married or partnered, and all very eager to share their experience with me. While these men report a fondness and deep love for their spouse, they also report a very low or nonexistent amount of validation, and an inadequate amount of attention and praise from her.
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